Said about dominant and submissive partners:
Some people are talented to lead and some to follow.
That doesn’t have to do with how important one is, there is no shame in following and no pride in leading only different responsibilities that we all have to face them at some point of our life. The example I use is our hand. Our fingers are not of equal size and can’t perform same tasks all of them but they are all equally important. So yes, in my world I lead and any partner follows, but again that doesn’t mean she is a person without will, desires, emotions or even the freedom to take initiatives, quite the opposite I would say.